TFT35 firmware for cnc?

Disregard my comment about cnc icons, i can see when it is programming tft that they are different.
… my problem now is that it says Icons:updates required.
so FYI, backtracking for you-





you can see from photos the the GD chip, so i used that firmware, config.ini file and tft35 icons,
for the unified menu material theme.
the third photo was after 2nd update, hence the .cur extension.
and the last photo should be error i am getting.
i hav reset the file extension, and still had same error.
All help appreciated, i want to get it running so i can finish and set up.
have i not copied enough files, or wrong files?
…Oh the pain…frustration.