I can not speak for everyone but not many people jump at the chance of helping people with lethal voltages. I am sorry you feel like we are not helping.
You will see a lot of “this is how I did it” but not many, “here is how you should do it” threads.
I saw your post and steered clear for the fact that a lot of your post did not add up. I felt you needed to do some more research on your own before I got involved. Here is exactly what I used to build mine, Lowrider2 Plasma Build. If you have some questions from there, I am sure you will get more help when you get more specific. What you are asking about is not how most people do this and there is a whole ton of info to cover.
As a business owner I will not be offering any of this as a kit, my insurance company would have a fit.