Yeah, all those damn forum members liking your posts.
Well, I was more thinking of it being a personal failing on my part for not being as encouraging as I could be but maybe I’ll just run with your take on it. Way less self reflection needed!
It is actually harder, at least for me, to get a 1:1 ratio, because I just don’t like every post to mark I’ve read it like some people do. And a lot of my posts are either helpful or completely dumb and therefore so funny that they get quite a few likes. So my problem is that I am too beautiful and popular for this forum to actually maintain a 1:1 ratio…
(If anyone should consider taking this seriously: No!)
You forgot to mention modest as well!
Interesting that others also shoot for a 1:1 ratio. I’m usually pretty close to that.
I’m shooting for 4 received and :1 given. If I read as many as I post, then that means I like a post along with 3 others and 4 people like one of mine. If it is 1 to one then either I’m not posting enough value for folks to care enough to respond or maybe I’m not reading enough of them and responding to share the likes. I don’t respond with a like to the “hah, good one,” posts or “me too,” posts. Just the “I’m beautiful,” ones.
whoops…
I’ve never looked at my “like” stats until today… looks like I’ve been holding back too much on the like button lol
Du gehst nicht den Weg der Gilde!
I don’t have much time being active and participating with substantial input at the forum these days. But I follow along and enjoy all the things going on. So I give many more hearts than I receive, and I’m perfectly fine with it! Right now I’m at a 1:2 ratio. Giving is receiving.
Edit: actually, these days its more ducks than hearts. Not that I don’t like hearts, but ducks are neat birds.
Mine are 7 to 1 give to recieved